12 things to look forward to when your child has left home
So, that’s it – your kids are about to fly the nest and after a bit of adjusting, it’s time for you to remember what life was like before. Yes, you’ll miss your little sprogs, but instead of worrying about what they’re up to and whether they’re eating more than just baked beans, why not focus on what you can gain with your extra free time?
1. The taxi of mum and dad is no longer in service, meaning that episode of Luther can be enjoyed with an extra glass of wine.
2. Hello cultural, off the beaten track holidays with extra spending money – no extra rooms or kids’ clubs to pay for!
3. Hiding your fancy wine and spirits just in case nosy teenagers hit the jackpot before that casual non-party they promised would be alcohol-free? Treat yourself to the good stuff without worrying the bottles will get into the wrong hands…
4. The days of getting back from work and finding half the cheese gone and the empty milk carton back in the fridge are now behind you. You’ll never have to go tea-less again!
5. Have you forgotten what your hobbies are, let alone have any time to do them? Now’s your chance to pick them back up again, or even give something new a try.
6. Remember your favourite meal, the one your kids hate because they contain vegetables? Get your saucepans out and your chef’s hat back on, you’re back in business.
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7. You and your partner can go back to date nights and remembering what it’s like to not just be a parent. Second honeymoon stage, bring it on!
8. Inject some more fun and spontaneity – you can go on last-minute trips, go on a bike ride, go to the cinema, and treat yourself to a spa day or fancy lunch out.
9. Make the effort to connect with friends who you may have lost touch with over the years.
10. Redecorate your home and take the opportunity to declutter and refresh your space now you have chance.
11. Start going to the gym or doing exercise – also a great way to banish any sad feelings you might be having about your kids flying the nest.
12. If all else fails, get a new furry friend! The perfect way to distract from your child not being at home, and an instant mood-booster.
